What can parents do to avoid raising their children to be "Pharisees"? What can they do--practically as well as in theory--that can help them raise kids who love and obey God from deep within a humble heart, rather than trusting in their own performance and "goodness", like a whitewashed tomb? Conversely, if you have ideas about what they shouldn't do, that helps, too.
Please comment in response. I'd love to hear what you have to say.